Yes, she is a whore! What is Skamyshiming?.
The name of Amanda Todd became widely known in the United States after the media replicated the history of its network persecution. The girl was subjected to numerous attacks by users of social networks, as well as her classmates, because a certain anonym executed on the Internet her photo Topless – a screenshot of a video in which Amanda raised a T -shirt for several seconds, succumbing to the interlocutor’s persuasion to demonstrate his chest. Long months of public condemnation followed – Amanda wrote nasty things in social networks, called the whore, and classmates once beat her for licentiousness.
Skiyshiming is a condemnation of women for the excessive, about the opinion of the majority, freedom in intimate life. This phenomenon is far from new, a beautiful gender has been subjected to pressure from society for a very long time, from the beginning of the dominance of religious morality in Europe.
History and essence
Skiyatiming is associated with the so -called complex of Madonna and harlot: a woman into these 2 categories is widespread in society. The first are exalted, but physically do not want, but the latter want, but they treat them with extreme condemnation. From the point of view of conservative Christian cults, a woman is responsible for the fact that her external attractiveness provokes men to lust. It was Eve who seduced Adam, so the woman lies with the original sin – she should dress and behave as modestly as possible. The manifestation of sexual activity for the girl is unacceptable, although it is welcome in men.
In the publicity, it is interesting that absolutely any girl can condemn, regardless of her lifestyle. The judgment is based on its appearance or rumors that go about it.
Condemnation of women for the appearance is an amazingly discriminatory practice in society. A short skirt, a too deep neckline or a defiantly tight suit can provoke the aggression of others – many girls who put their photos to open access, write offensive comments, hinting at their belonging to commercial sex women.
Men and girls can make it equally, but the object of censure almost always becomes a wonderful gender.
Some numbers
The guys often subject the girls to the sending of a glorious for annoyance – either she threw the evil youth, or he feels how his self -esteem falls from the realization that, most likely, success is unlikely to expect him if he tries to flirt with her.
The study conducted in 2015 in Britain showed that English schoolchildren are engaged in slicing for the following reasons:
- They wanted to feel social superiority over the victim, to rise in their eyes due to the humiliation of another – 30%;
- repulse the guy from a competitor – 25%;
- Due to the sense of uselessness and loneliness-20%;
- Due to the belief that such behavior is not worthy-18%;
- 3% replied that schoolgirls should not have sex before graduation.
That is, most respondents solved their own psychological problems through condemnation.
American researchers of this topic got the results proving that the vast majority of sending cases concerned girls from unsecured families. Rich, oddly enough, are practically not subject to condemnation for appearance and behavior.
Why is that bad
The justification of the rapist is a very frequent phenomenon in any country;The townsfolk condemn the girls for being late in an unsafe place, drank, behaved frivolously and were defiantly dressed. In 2013, Kansas University held an exhibition, where sets of clothes of girls who were raped were presented. Among the exhibits was a swimsuit, a long skirt to the heels, and shapeless trousers with a spacious T -shirt. The purpose of the exhibition is to show that it does not matter how sexy the woman is, the problem is always in the rapist, and in the victim – never.
In 2013, in India, a trial took place over the participants in group rape, who justified her act by the fact that the girl was driving very late on the bus home – according to them, such behavior should be punished, decent women at that time sit at home.
Skiyatiming is a method of discrimination of women, it is unacceptable under any circumstances. Freedom in an intimate life is possessed by the strong and beautiful gender, and to drive the sensuality and natural needs of a person for the framework of Hangery morality – it is to suppress his personality. Even if the girl has problems with a psychological plan, and she tries to cope with the inner void with a large number of partners and frank clothes, then this is an occasion to reach out her hand, and not water her insults.