How to develop female sexuality?.
Sexuality is a woman’s internal state. Her emotionality, self -confidence. Others evaluate the sexuality of a woman, exactly as much as she considers herself sexy. How to increase or develop your sexuality an urgent issue for many women.
Often the lack of sexuality is experienced by young girls, women after childbirth or illness or those who have not learned this.
What does sexuality affect
Yes, all aspects of our lives. First of all, on relations with a man, to satisfy sex. On the opportunity to experience orgasms, excite.
Healthy relationships and healthy sex pledge and physical and mental health. A woman does not feel her sexuality and does not experience an orgasm, she is prone to depression, stress. Men do not pay attention to them. And beautiful appearance and model forms nothing.
Most likely there is such a girl in your environment, it seems not very beautiful or puffer, but she always has guys. Or she already consists in serious relationships with an excellent partner. It’s all about her sexuality.
Lost or reduced sexuality can cause a pair in a pair or, worse, betrayal.
Assessment of sexuality
In order to understand how much you feel sexy, answer questions and decide on the depth of feelings and emotions during the answers.
- How often and how much do you experience sexual attraction?
- Do you have erotic fantasies and dreams, how often?
- How many erogenous areas you have and where are they?
- What feelings and emotions (pleasure, joy, euphoria, fear, shame) causes you sex and generally bodily intimacy?
- You experience orgasms? How often? You know how to achieve it faster?
- Do men look at you? It turns after?
- How often they try to meet?
- Do you tell you compliments and how often?
If you are quickly excited, have erotic fantasies or dreams (your husband can also be in fantasies and dreams), experience pleasure and satisfaction from sex, you know your body and how to bring yourself to ecstasy, men look at you and speak compliments and even try to get acquainted with you- You are 100% sexy.
If at all points Zero – urgently start working on yourself.
How to develop sexuality.
You need to start with your sensations and emotions.
- Fear yourself. Stop looking for shortcomings! Find virtues and emphasize them. Even the smallest. Maybe you have beautiful legs? Then you can buy beautiful stockings or tights. In the store you can find a wide range. Stockings with a belt and on an elastic band, different colors, density. Tights with weight and special slots in the perineum, you yourself know why. Beautiful and sexy linen, even for lush shapes. Lighting from strengthening is particularly popular and love. Praised themselves for any trifle.
- Stay a woman always. Do not forget this even in everyday life. You are beautiful, you are a priestess of the hearth. Down with an old gap bathroom or stretched T -shirt! Choose a beautiful peignoir or shirt for yourself. Home clothing can also be erotic and beautiful. Pajamas, robes, shirts, combinations for every taste and wallet for
- Know yourself. Be shy about his body. And follow yourself and your erogenous zones. Create a pleasant environment, candles, wine. Can be done in the bathroom. Start stroke, touch yourself. All of yourself. Arms, legs, neck, stomach. Listen to your feelings. In which place is a greater response. What do you feel under your fingers? Just pressure, heat, pulsation or goosebumps. You need to strengthen these sensations. Further is more difficult. Experiment with your chest, stroke, squeeze, pinch, find out that you like it more. Pay special attention to nipples. Then we go down below. Pubis. The inner surface of the hips. Crotch. Still yourself, drive your fingertips on the labia, massage the clitoris, run your finger inside. And then the bestest thing is masturbate. This is natural and will expand the range of sensations. If there has never been an orgasm, it is just necessary. To enhance sensations, you can use vibrators or clitoral stimulants. Vibrostimulators can generally be used for any part of the body. You can find special stimulants for the nipples.
Fantasize. Try to do this before going to bed. Do not be afraid of fantasies, because there you can be any of with any. And it will be your secret. For more courageous, you can tell your partner about your fantasies, or not to tell. But buy suitable clothes and go to it. If a guy meets a stewardess at home, the evening will be hot. - Work with a psychologist. If sexuality is blocked by psychological trauma. There was violence either physical or mental. Parental ban on sex and everything related to him. Need to go to therapy. There is nothing shameful. There is no need to notify others.
- Sex. The proximity with the partner will reveal itself. Enjoy every minute of proximity. If there is no orgasm, it is unnecessary to focus on this. Sex itself is pleasant. It is also important to talk about "this" With a partner. Discuss what you liked, adjust its actions. And also unites and take toys with you to bed.
So, female sexuality in the hands of the woman herself. It is time to straighten your shoulders and go forward towards pleasure.
Work on yourself and please yourself even for the minimum result. Learn to communicate with men, withstand their eyes. Smile back. Show the initiative. And don’t forget about the assistants. Do not be afraid of yourself and your desires.