Such tempting porn.
In the 70s. Films came out that became the golden classic of the genre of pornography – “Deep Sip”, “Caligula”, “Emmanuel”. Pictures with a finished plot contained extremely frank scenes of sexual intercourse, shown in the smallest physiological details. The “deep throat” had crowds of fans. And the film itself, having acquired the status of both cult and scandalous, underwent severe criticism from conservative citizens and even judicial persecution.
Since then, debates have not subside about films for adults – is it possible to consider watching porn with the norm or the availability of candid scenes adversely affects healthy sexuality?
Watch or not watch?
Most sexologists consider watching porn in the context of dependence – a situation where a person cannot be excited without this incentive, does not receive proper discharge and emotions from sex with a permanent partner. And such cases are really frequent. A considerable number of women are divided by the problem of concern of her husband with pornography. The host of sex training talks about a client who found her young man for masturbation by means of porn immediately after they have already finished making love.
In this case, it is important to understand why the partner does not receive a maximum from intimacy. And ask: what exactly attracted him in this video, so that he would like to change, try why this porn actor or porn actress seem to him the most attractive? Perhaps you should try some kind of practice or pose or just express your feelings as frankly as girls do in porn. A heart -to -heart conversation will help clarify the situation and bring an intimate life in the optimal direction.
If pornography does not become a replacement for real intimate relationships, a dish does not turn without necessarily, without which neither excitement nor erection, this type of stimulation will not be demonized. The prevailing couples may well try to jointly watch videos with a plot, which they themselves do not dare to realize (for example, exchange of pairs or threesome), and try to understand whether they will be able to enjoy it in real life.
For people who are not in relationships, adult films become a good way to strengthen the sensation during the solo of masturbation. The main thing is not to turn such leisure into the only possible and arrange sessions of self -satisfaction, where their own fantasy will be the only emotional stimulus.
What are the harm of candid films
The main problem associated with porn is its unrealism and isolation from life. Ideal women with satin skin, neat women’s pussy, phalluses 25 cm – all this forms the viewer of incorrect ideas about the human body, and the result is high expectations from the partner. One of the adherents of the movement of the incomes complains that his long -term adherence to pornography has formed the image of an ideal mistress, and the average girl is unlikely to excite him.
Sexual intercourse, as a rule, is shown in porn far from reality: a woman is excited instantly from a pair of touch, always ends with vaginal penetration, orgasm comes from any caresses and manipulations very quickly, screams and moans follow immediately the introduction of the penis. In life, a girl most often needs time to enjoy so bright to comment on what is happening with loud cries.
In lesbian scenes, women have an awesome nails that can injure the vagina. The man is the owner of a member of more than 20 cm and a stable erection that does not fall to the very end of the film. Teenagers who are accustomed to realize sexual needs through watching pornography receive an idealized idea of sex that has nothing to do with reality.
Feminist erotic films
Criticism of porn also concerns the involvement in the industry of girls who have no other choice of earnings and receive only injuries and a broken psyche from filming. Women’s rights fighters have developed their concept of ethical porn, in which a woman is filmed voluntarily, always enjoys and is not concerned about how she looks in the frame. Female orgasms occur not only in the stage, they are real, and girls can have excess weight, cellulite and hairy armpits. The film does not end with the culmination of a man, as happens in classical pornography, it lasts until a woman finishes.
In addition, in feminist porn, they do not seek to make the perfect surroundings – there are no gilded beds with canopies or stylish hotel rooms, but there is a student room littered with clothes and books and even a cat, bewildering her moaning housewife.
In this world, everything can be both medicine and poison – even water can kill if you drink it a few liters in one sitting. The same story with porn: in reasonable doses, used with a bit of common sense, it can become a piquant seasoning and good diversify an intimate life. The main thing is to listen to yourself, your feelings and look for harmony with a partner.