Flagellation – it hurts or pleasant.
Flagellation is a flogging of a subordinate partner. Slapping can have different intensity – it all depends on the sexual preferences of the participants in the proximity. This entertainment attracts many couples, but not everyone decides to try it. And perfect in vain, because the flagellation is able to give partners a sea of positive emotions.
Proceeding in bed is not only a mechanical effect on the body, but also a bright role -playing game. Partners can try themselves in different roles, which will diversify sexual life, make it brighter and more saturated. The role -playing game reveals the internal potential, allows you to look at the partner from the other side.
Where to begin?
Think about an erotic script that you want to realize. Better to discuss the roles right away. It is special costumes that will help to reincarnate in a matter of minutes. The most popular and simple options are a student and teacher, a maid and master, a stewardess and a passenger, a nurse and a patient.
You need to think about who will seduce whom. And most importantly, who will punish. You can not write phrases, but it is better to think through the general concept. And after that it is worth going to a sec-shop. In it you can buy a whip, erotic costumes, objects for the bondage. First you need to find everything to implement the script. Do not save, it is very important that for the first time everything turned out interesting. If additional accessories cause you fear or awkwardness, try slapping your palm. Pre -discuss with the partner the permissible impact force. Do not be afraid of traces – pinkish traces will remain from the slap with your palm, which will completely disappear after half an hour. In the future, you can buy a flogger – a whip with a large number of small “tails”.
Just blows during sex – it’s interesting, but not too exciting. It is the process of planning, preparation, and then embodiment in life is able to greatly diversify the proximity. This is a long process that keeps in excitement all the time, and the result is amazing.
How to flog for the first time?
When the reason for punishment was found when everything is already at hand, you need to sit comfortably. Take care in advance about a convenient position for a subordinate partner. The buttocks should be raised. To do this, put the pillow under the hips or stomach. The game will be more interesting if partners communicate with each other from the position of “victim and dominant”. For example, a subordinate partner can ask for mercy, cry out and even break out. Resistance will only strengthen the intensity of what is happening. But at the same time, do not strengthen the blows, for starters, not too serious influences are enough.
Safety rules for flogging
Before starting the flogging, partners should discuss permissible boundaries. The dominant should not do anything that the subordinate. To stop the game, come up with a stop-word. After its pronunciation, the dominant will stop any actions. This is a necessary thing so as not to cause too much moral or physical pain.
You can not apply on the spine, stomach and lower back. Flagellation should not cause pain, unpleasant sensations. Its main goal is to deliver the pleasure of sexual partners, to give them the opportunity to survive new unforgettable sensations. Proceeding or bodily punishment is a game that helps diversify sexual life. The use of this technique is not a perversion, this is just an experiment. And if you like it, there are dozens of ways to expand the sensation. You can use different lap and slap, change into different roles and even just change places.