Submissive in BDSM – who is it and what are his responsibilities?

Who is the submissive in BDSM-Igra?.

BDSM Secex implies a clear division of participants into game roles. One assumes the role of the dominant – gives commands, applies physical influences and requires complete subordination. Another becomes a submissive/slave and demonstrates obedience.

SABMISSIVE ATSISSIVE IN BDSM-Igra

Entering into a relationship of this format, both partners should be aware of every action. And if the dominant undertakes to strictly monitor the state of the submissive during and after the BDSM session, then the slave must report on changes in the physical or psychological plan.

So, the submissive should:

• obey the dominant and fulfill all his commands;
• to give pleasure to the master of the ways that will be ordered;
• take pain and humiliation unquestioningly.

It may seem that the submissive in the BDSM reasons suffers incredibly. In fact, this, of course, is not so. A person who takes on the role of a slave knows what exactly will happen, and voluntarily agrees to a tough game.

By the way, most often the submissives in sex are people prone to masochism. In other words, a person experiences moral and sexual pleasure, obeying another person.

Not always lovers of BDSM use pain techniques. In general, pain is an optional moment. The main thing is submission. Some couples make such specific relations beyond the scope of bed, which can also deliver a lot of pleasure.

Rules for the submissive

1. Before the start of the BDSM session, partners discuss all the nuances of the upcoming entertainment, namely, techniques, teams, postures. If the slave does not accept some actions in sex, he must inform the dominant about this – then strict taboos will be imposed on these actions.
2. Be sure to come up with a stop. It will be needed if the submissive suddenly sharply becomes uneasy. As soon as he pronounces the stop-word, the dominant will stop the sex game and ask the state of the slave. If everything is fine, the BDSM session will continue. If the submissive feels bad, the dominant will take the necessary measures.
3. Often adherents of BDSM practice anal entertainment. In this case, the submissive must provide comfort to the dominant. Cleaning procedures are carried out before sex – either a regular medical enema is put, or this is done through anal shower. They also prepare intimate lubrication for anal sex in advance.

Appeal to the dominant

As a rule, a submissive can look in the face of the master only after such permission is given to him. Until this moment, the slave’s gaze should be facing the floor. It is impossible to argue with the dominant and not execute the commands – this can be punishable by punishment (in advance).

Since the beginning of the game, power over the body of a slave fully belongs to the master. He decides when and what techniques to use. In case of disobedience, the dominant applies the punishment. Usually this:

• slap on the buttocks with a palm;
• flogging with a safe whip;
• tight clamps for nipples or genital organs;
• forced blowjob/cunnilingus;
• exposure to the current through an electrical stimulant;
• painful stimulation of molten wax.

Partners can come up with many other types of punishment. The main thing is that this is not a shock for the submissive. All options are pre -discussed – and only then a general decision is made.

Sex toys for submissive

First of all, this is a special suit. The ideal option is a latex product. If partners want to add an element of role-playing game to the BDSM session, then it is worth looking for suitable costumes in a sex shop-for example, a maid outfit, gardener or teacher.

Exciting sex devices for BDSM:

• Parting attributes – stack, phogger, Pedle;
• leather collar with iron rivets;
• gag for the mouth;
• fisting products;
• electrical stimulants;
• handcuffs or ropes for the bondage.

BDSM opens up new horizons of sexual pleasure before partners. Should not be afraid of such entertainment. But it is important not to forget about the safety rules. The degree of trust between the dominant and the submission is also of great importance. With the right approach of the BDSM session, it will pass perfectly. And the sensations from such a game will be incredibly sharp and sweet.