Anal sex is pleasure.
Anal sex should bring pleasure and in no case do not pain. If painful sensations appeared, then something went wrong. Try adding lubricant, Change the pose, you may need additional stimulation in the form of oral caresses or vibrator. But it should be admitted that not everyone likes anal sex, so listen to your body and partner. There are three main ingredients, thanks to which anal sex brings pleasure:
- Relaxation of the anus is more of use than attempts to open it. This requires experience, so start with an elegant toy or little finger. If you want to feel something more, then over time you can increase the size.
- Talk to your partner before and during anal sex: what you like or not like? Do you need more lubrication? Whether the pose is satisfied? Would you like to try another? The more you say, the easier it will be enjoying each other.
- Several lubricants are more suitable for anal sex. Water -based lubricants (with or without glycerin) can dry quickly, so the bottle will have to be kept at hand all the time. Silicone lubricants do not dry, so it is better to use them.
- Never move on to vaginal or oral sex after anal without changing a condom and/or not accepting water procedures.